Screen Shot 2015-05-12 at 3.09.43 PM“An emerald ring worn on the little finger of your right hand will bring prosperity into your life…” –  Gemologist/Vedic Astrologer

“The Yod in your chart means you have a special purpose…” -Astrologer

“Someone has put a spell on you and wishes you harm..gather sharp objects, nails, glass etc. place in a glass jar, pee on them and send the spell back to the person who wishes you ill.” -Psychic on Oxford Street, London

“Yogananda wants me to tell you: “Smell the flowers. Wear red to ground yourself.” -Psychic

“Your friend, with the fish eyes, is a yogini. And you, you were there during the battle of Kurukshetra.” -Yogi

“You will have a boy. You will die on railroad tracks in a year.” -Random Person

These are only a few of the many astrological, psychic readings, channelings and visions that I have been told.  Even though some of the prophecies were unsolicited by me, I listened enthralled trying to fathom how I could fulfill or avoid the prophesied futures for me.

At that time, I did not realize I had choice in believing or disregarding what these people were telling me about my future. But, thankfully, this changed for me in my early twenties.

I was at a pizza place in San Francisco with a friend. We were waiting for our food to arrive when we heard a terrible commotion outside.

At first, I thought an accident had occurred and that the person was trying to get attention for help. Then I saw the young woman banging intensely on the large windows of the pizza place.

I wondered whose attention she needed until it dawned on me, that it was me she was pointing at.

I stood up and walked outside. On my way, I heard myself say to myself: “No matter what happens here, do not take anything on. Let it pass through you.”

I walked up to the young woman who appeared to be very distressed. I felt self-conscious and nervous, as by now, the whole crowd in the restaurant was curious and watching. I wondered if I knew the woman, or, if our paths had crossed and I inadvertently upset her. I did not recognize her.

As soon as she saw me, she looked at me very intently and delivered her prophecy. It was the one about having a boy and dying on the railroad tracks. I thanked her for letting me know and walked back into the pizza place.

I did not know what to make of what she had said. I certainly did not want to have a child at that point in my life and I certainly did not want to die.

A flurry of conflicting and confusing thoughts erupted in my mind as I made small talk with my friend. A small comfort sank in: I remembered the curious instructions from my inner voice before the meeting with the woman: “No matter what happens here, do not take anything on. Let it pass through you.”

I decided to follow what my inner voice had instructed me to do: I let it pass and did not cling to the words or the intensity.

After that experience, I created a psychic firewall around for me to filter the information coming in – whether from psychics or experts such as, doctors or lawyers. I realized I valued their expertise and opinions but not to the extent of handing over authority over my body and soul.

When I look at my life through my eyes, I experience it knowing my history, my akashic records compressed in filaments of light, and the direction of my soul like no other. And because of that, I know it is my duty to show up and discern the best course for me.

“It matters not how strait the gate,

How charged with punishments the scroll,

I am the master of my fate,

I am the captain of my soul.”  -Invictus by William Ernest Henley

And so it is.

Here is my 6 point action guide for how to get the best advice to steer your course:

  1. Pick The Right Expert for YOU
    Whether you are seeking a psychic or doctor, take your time in finding the right match for you. It is worth your time to find someone you resonate with.
  2. Get Clear
    Emotionally and psychologically get as centered as possible before meeting with the expert and be absolutely clear within yourself about the guidance/answers you are seeking.
  3. Pay Attention
    Listen carefully, critically and see if what they have to say resonates with you. You can always get a second opinion. Ask questions if you do not understand what they are telling you.
  4. Your Body Knows
    Tune into your body and see how it reacts to the person/information. Our bodies know more than we think. Listen to your instincts and intuition.
  5. Second Opinion
    There’s always time to get a second opinion. Do not allow yourself to be bullied or persuaded into a viewpoint you do not concur with.
  6. Let It Go
    Take what you need and let go of the rest. You are the captain of your soul!

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